Anti-Diet Culture: Why it’s the Best Thing for Your Health

Written by Aimee Gindin
Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor

Have you ever felt guilty just for eating a cookie? Or maybe you have looked at a menu and thought about which meal would make you “good” and which would make you “bad.” If you have, you are not alone. You have been tricked by something called Anti Diet Culture. Wait, let’s flip that. You have been tricked by Diet Culture, and the solution is the Anti-Diet approach.

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Welcome to The Full Plate, where we believe your worth is not measured by the size of your pants. The Full Plate Community is a great place to learn more about who we are. We are here to talk about why rejecting diets is actually the healthiest thing you can do.

What Is Diet Culture Anyway?

Diet culture is like an invisible bully that follows you around. It is a system of beliefs that worships being thin and equates it to being healthy and having moral virtue.1 It tells you that you are “good” if you eat salad and “bad” if you eat pizza. It promises that if you just lose weight, you will be happy, rich, and successful.

But here is the truth: diet culture is a liar. It steals your time, your money, and your happiness. It distracts you from your purpose and your power.2 It makes us judge people based on their body size instead of who they are as people. That is not fair, and it is definitely not fun.

"Diet culture is a system of beliefs that worships thinness and equates it to health and moral virtue… [and] oppresses people who don't match up with its supposed picture of 'health'."3

Why Diets Let You Down

You might think, “But I just need more willpower!” Nope. That is not it at all. The problem isn’t you; the problem is the diet. Did you know that up to 95 percent of all diets fail?[^4] It’s true. If a car mechanic failed 95 percent of the time, you would never go back to them. But for some reason, we keep going back to diets.

When you go on a diet, your body doesn't know you are trying to look good for a vacation. It thinks you are in a famine. It thinks you are starving! So, your body fights back to keep you alive. It slows down your metabolism (the engine that burns energy). It also turns up your hunger signals so you crave food more than ever.5

If you have ever wondered can you lose weight with intuitive eating, the answer is complicated because weight loss shouldn't be the main goal. Focusing on weight often backfires because your body is smart and wired for survival.

The Sneaky Ways Diet Culture Shows Up

Sometimes diet culture wears a disguise. It might not call itself a “diet.” It might use words like “lifestyle change,” “clean eating,” or “wellness.” But if it tells you to restrict what you eat or feel guilty about food, it is a diet.

Here are some signs you might be caught in diet culture:

  • You label foods as "good" or "bad."
  • You exercise only to burn off calories, not because it feels good.
  • You feel guilty after eating.
  • You skip social events because you are worried about the food.
  • You ignore your hunger because it is not "time" to eat yet.

If you are constantly counting numbers, check out our article on Intuitive Eating vs Calorie Counting. It explains why trusting your body works better than trusting an app.

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The Dieter’s Dilemma

There is a cycle called the "Dieter's Dilemma" that explains why we get stuck.6 It looks like this:

  1. Desire to be thin: You want to lose weight because society says you should.
  2. Dieting: You start restricting food.
  3. Cravings: Your body gets hungry and craves the forbidden food.
  4. Loss of Control: You eventually give in and eat the food (often a lot of it).
  5. Regain of Lost Weight: You gain back the weight, plus maybe more.

Then the cycle starts all over again. It is exhausting! This cycle leads to what we call the "Last Supper" eating. That is when you eat a ton of food because you think you won't be allowed to eat it tomorrow when your new diet starts.7

Intuitive Eating: The Way Out

So, how do we stop this madness? We embrace an anti-diet approach called Intuitive Eating. This isn't another set of rules. It is about trusting your own body. You were born knowing how to eat. Toddlers know exactly when they are hungry and when they are full. We just forgot how to listen.

Intuitive Eating has 10 principles, but the first one is the most important: Reject the Diet Mentality. You have to get angry at the lies diet culture has told you. You have to throw out the diet books and delete the tracking apps.

Instead of fighting your body, you learn to work with it. You learn to accept your body exactly as it is right now. When you respect your body, you want to take care of it, not punish it.

How to Ditch the Diet Rules

Ready to join the anti-diet movement? Here are some steps to get started:

  1. Unfollow and Unsubscribe: Go through your social media. If an account makes you feel bad about your body, unfollow it.
  2. Stop the Body Talk: Don't talk about your weight or other people's weight. Don't compliment weight loss. Let's talk about hobbies, books, or pets instead!
  3. Eat Satisfying Foods: If you want a cookie, eat a cookie. If you ignore the craving, you might end up eating five apples and then the cookie anyway.
  4. Listen to Your Hunger: Eat when you are hungry. Don't wait until you are starving.

We have lots of Intuitive Eating resources to help you on this journey, including checklists and guides.

Join the Anti-Diet Revolution

Breaking free from diet culture is freedom. It means you can go to a birthday party and enjoy the cake without doing math in your head. It means you can enjoy a dinner out with friends without anxiety.

We would love to help you find that freedom. If you are ready to stop fighting with food and start living your life, you should come hang out with us. Join The Full Plate Community today. It is a safe space where we learn to trust our inner wisdom and support each other.

Remember, you are the expert on your own body. No diet book knows how you feel or what you need. Trust yourself. You’ve got this!

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Sources


1: Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch, *Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach*, 4th ed. (New York: St. Martin’s Essentials, 2020), 49.
2: Tribole and Resch, Intuitive Eating, 49.
3: Tribole and Resch, Intuitive Eating, 13.
4: Tribole and Resch, Intuitive Eating, 51-52.
5: Tribole and Resch, Intuitive Eating, 98.
6: Tribole and Resch, Intuitive Eating, 42.